10 Things A Woman Wants To See In Her Man

So today we are going to talk about the universe's most important mystery-"Women"

Thankfully we can take help of a survey based on data on views of 1500 single women aged 18-40yrs and found them to be very clear about what they want and dont want, atleast when it comes to love.

In the report, the most common male traits that women claim to put their heart aflutter are "a sense of humour and a killer smile".

This is perfect anthropological data.Cross cultural studies show that women are attracted to mates based on intelligence,kindness and resource potential.a sense of humour is linked to intelligence and a killer smile is an indicator of kindness.So lets put the qualities down one by one ..

These tips will definately help a man to win her over and have a great relationship..

1. Make eye contact before you approach her-If you want an easy way to guage if your approach will be successful? Try making preliminary eye contact from a distance and see how she responds.if she holds your gaze or even better,if she smiles--Go talk to her. If she avoids your gaze, then your chances are slim.

2. Dont express interest both in her and her friends-This is an absolute No-No..If you like her, then just stick to her and show genuine interest in her.

Dont do things that will potray you as a player.

3. Make her feel as if she is the most beautiful woman- every woman is beautiful.some are physically and some are from within.be genuine in your approach .If you make her feel comfortable and happy, she would want to spend more and more time with you.

Praise her dress, the way her skin glows, the way her eyes shine, her sweet smile,the way she carries herself.....the list is endless.

4. Make her feel intelligent and funny too-This includes appreciating not only her physical appearance but also her emotional and spiritual attributes.

5. She is one in a million-Your words and actions should make her feel one in a million and stand out in the crowd.She should start feeling special.

6. Say it wth Flowers-Make her feel like her princess.Dont go to meet her empty handed.Flowers,Chocolates,gifts. Pamper her to abundance.


7. Love her Emotions-What she wants from you is to make her laugh,scream with joy,run,jump and play like a girl and make her feel like the luckiest woman in the world!There is nothing more attractive,irrestible and sexier than that.

8. Learn to listen- when she comes to you with a problem, dont be a smart alex and give her a fast solution..she did not come to you for one..She just wants you to listen and understand ,give her the time and then softy hug her and kiss her.

9. Dont cheat on her-If you have a secret love affair.break it.Infedility is betrayal..its not exciting,its depressing.

10. So Love her,Care for her as if your life depends on her..And she will give you all in return.she will make you the happiest man alive.

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                             Mrs Cindrella Diaz (Paris)

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A Good Deed

One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry. He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. Being embarrased however, Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water to the lady who opened the door.
She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it slowly, and then asked, "How much do I owe you?"
She replied."You don't owe me anything. Mother has taught me that a good deed never goes waste. it always comes back to you".
He said....."Then I thank you from my heart." As the young boy left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was strong also.


Year's later that young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation. He rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room.
Dressed in his doctor's gown he went in to see her. He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best for his patient since she was suffering from a rare disease. From that day he worked very hard researching, doing different investigations,trying everything he could to save her life.


After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval so that he could write his charges.
The bill was then sent to the lady. She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. She may have to sell her house to pay the bill.She may have to stay on the streets for the rest of her life.
Finally she looked, the bill had an enormous amount written in it and she knew that all was lost. 


But something caught her attention on the side of the bill.
It read.....
" Your Bill paid in full with a glass of milk. A good deed never goes waste. it always comes back to you."
(Signed)
Dr. Howard Kelly
Tears of joy flooded her eyes as her happy heart prayed: "Thank You, God, that Your love has spread abroad through human hearts and hands."

                                                  
                                   sent to us by

Mr.Andrew Mason (U.K)

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How To Recognise A Liar

         How To Know When Someone Lies To You!


1. Liars dont have a good memory.Liars always tend to forget what they had said last time and so they end up making contradicting statements.


2. Its easy to notice a Liars body language- They are either fidgeting with their hair, stroking their throat or rubbing their eyes.With their body often turned away from you, you may notice hand or leg fidgeting.Liars also have trouble swallowing and may shake their head after a point they have made.When the subject finally gets changed they appear happy and more comfortable, maybe laughing nervously. 


3. Liars take offence very quickly even if you show a little suspicion. They may also talk too much, feeling the need to over-explain themselves. 


4. Liars fail to control their facial expressions. While fibbing, you may notice nervous twitching. Their hand may be covering or touching their face.people also tend to touch their mouth when feeling guilty or anxious.Its easy to notice a fake smile too.


5. Liars nose reddens when they lie. When a human tells a lie, extra blood gets pumped through the body and the nose swells and turns red just a little bit. Liars may subsequently touch the tip of their nose unconsciously. 


6. A liar has a troubled brow and falling eyes. They have trouble looking eye to eye. If the person is telling you the truth, he will look up and to the left, since thats the side of brain used for recollecting information. If he is lying, he will look up to the right, since thats the side resposible for imagination. 


7. A liar has a hard time controlling his body language or his voice. The pitch or rate of speech may change, with the individual giving a lot of "umms" and "ahhs". Often a Liar will appear monotonous.


With these Tips You can definately see through a person and avoid being cheated..Take Care
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                  Dr Geoffrey Botham (Psychotherapist)

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Its About Being Human

This is about Mr. Zavere Poonawala who is a well-known industrialist in India. He had this driver named Ganga Datt with him for the last 30 years on his limousine, which was originally owned by Acharya Rajneesh.  Ganga Datt passed away recently and at that time Mr. Poonawala was in Mumbai for some important work. As soon as he heard the news, he canceled all his meetings, requested the driver's family to await him for the cremation and came back to Pune immediately by a helicopter. On reaching Pune, he asked the limo to be decorated with flowers as he wished Ganga Datt should be taken in the same car, which he himself had driven since the beginning. When Ganga Datt's family agreed to his wishes,he himself drove Ganga Datt from his home up to the ghat on his last journey. When asked about it, Mr. Poonawala replied that Ganga Datt had served him day and night, and he could at least do this being eternally grateful to him. He further added that Ganga Datt rose up from poverty and educated both his children very well. His daughter is a Chartered accountant and that is so commendable.  His comment in the end, is the essence of a successful life in all aspects:  “Everybody earns money which is nothing unusual in that, but we should always be grateful to those people who contribute to our success. This is the belief, we have been brought up with, which made me do, what I did”.                                        sent to us by                                 Mr Abhijit Sobale (India)

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Things A Man Should Avoid At The Workplace

 Throughout my career, men have helped me at every step. Sometimes it was when I asked for help. Sometimes they saw I needed help even before I did, and they were there.

So you might think, this is me praising men for all they've done for me at work. But no. It's me asking for even more. It's my wish list for what else men could be doing.

So if you are a  Man, Do Take Care Of The following Things At Work..

Dressing-Men should wear darker suits as they carry more authority; the most powerful colors are dark blue, grey and black.
Loud and big checks and prints of any kind are to be avoided.
Always wear an ironed shirt, even if the shirt claims to be "wash and wear."

Hair And Skin-Shaving daily is a must for men. If you want to keep a moustache or beard, it should be neat and well trimmed.
Don’t let hair peep out from your nose and ears.
Keep your nails short and clean, as your hands are seen while communicating.

Odour-When it comes to wearing a fragrance, always remember… a little dab is just enough.
Use a deodorant / Anti perspirant specially in summers or you would smell like a fish.

Shoes And Socks-
Shoes should be well polished and in good condition.
Socks should complement the suit.Its always better, that your socks are of same color as the trousers as it gives a polished look as there is no break in vision.

Paternity Leave- why should women always take a leave for children. Men should also equally play their part.Its their child too.isnt it?

Porn Sites get majority of traffic during the workday..So men, please stay clear of these sites during work.

Lying/Gossiping
You don’t want to be the one that everyone knows as the office gossip. Especially in very political companies, you want to be trustworthy and friendly. If people see you as a liar or instigator, they are less likely to trust you or your work. 

Ineffectiveness
Are you effective in your job? The goal in any economy is to make yourself indispensable so that your company can’t do without you. This is ultimate job security. However, if you don’t complete tasks effectively or your work is less than stellar, you might be putting your position at risk.

Respect Women-Don’t look and stare at women as an object of sex.Women admire compliments but not raw remarks.Such Behaviour could easily have you expelled.

Don’t post obscene language or pictures of a  woman co- worker on a social networking site.Dont play with the integrity of a woman.Remember your wife must be working somewhere too.

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                Mrs Penelope Sage (CEO Rodricks Textiles)

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Things a woman should avoid in the work place

When you work with an organisation,there are some workplace ethics you need to follow.You need to avoid doing certain things if you want to be seen as an honest person with great integrity.
You have to be seen as a trustworthy person,fit to take any responsibility given to you. You need to convey professionalism at the workplace.

Take Care of the following things at your workplace.

1. Dressing- Everyone knows that you should avoid clothes that are too tight or skimpy. If your clothing is revealing, You may have difficulty getting attention for your ideas. But baggy clothing thats two sizes too big can be just as detrimental.If your clothing is shapeless, you will end up looking sloppy.
When choosing work outfits, stick to items with a contemporary cut and avoid anything that is ill-fitting or too large.Also dont wear the same designer clothes again and again.
Women have also been fired from their jobs for looking too hot.

2. Spreading gossip- At your  workplace you will overhear things,someone will disclose something, and there will always be some rumours flying around. You have to ensure that you sre not one of those that are active in spreading gossip.


3. Misusing office property- You should never use office property such as telephone,email and instant messages for personal purposes.Spending a lot of time on personal phone calls, chatting with friends, exchanging information using office email, using office printer for personal reasons and so on can be a good reason for you to be shown the door.

4. Blaming Others- When you make a mistake, dont get into the habit of blaming others.Making mistakes is human nature-every employer understands this.Though it may be tough and embarrasing to accept a mistake, you need to own up to your errors, if you want to hold on to your job. 

 5. Disclosure Of Confidential Information- It is a breech of contract if you disclose business information that can harm your employer. This reason is enough for your employer to fire you, and it will badly affect your future prospects as well.

6. Posting Harmful Information about your employer on a blog or facebook.If you have a blog or are invovled in any type of writing for the public domain,You should never post any information that could be harmful to your employer.
You should never bad mouth your employer on the blog or post company secrets.


7. Remarks-You should avoid making remarks that can be seen as racist or sexist.Showing intolerance towards some groups of people and being offensive towards them is also something that could get you fired.
If it is reported
 and you are found doing something that constitudes harrasement and hampers the performance of a colleague, then your boss can conclude that you need to be relieved of your duties.

8. Stealing- Though your employer provides you with items necessary for your job, such as office supplies,you should not use it for personal purposes or it amounts to stealing.

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     Miss Linda Jersy ( Personal Groomer-New York)

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Secrets For Wrinkle Free Skin

Wrinkles are nothing but thin creases that we notice on certain parts of our body as our age increases. You can notice wrinkles on your face, especially at the corner of the eyes, on your neck and your hands.
However, wrinkles have come to be seen as synonymous with old age and people, especially women, panic at the first signs of wrinkles. Our skin contains elastin and collagen and it is these substances that give it the elasticity. As we grow older or even in case of skin damage, these elements reduce. As a result of this, the skin looks creased and sagging. 
Wrinkles are also caused by over exposure to the rays of the sun. This often results in squinting and causes wrinkles around the eyes. If you smoke on a regular basis, you are likely to develop wrinkles. When people go on a crash diet with the aim of losing a lot of weight over a short period of time, their skin is adversely affected and develops wrinkles.


Following are the essential things you need to do to prevent wrinkling of skin
1. Avoid the harsh sunrays or atleast cover your face with a scarf and use a gentle sunscreen.


2. Use Mosturizers to keep your skin soft and hydrated at all times.Hydration of the skin is the key to prevent wrinkles.


3. Drink lots and lots of water.atleast 8-10 glasses everyday.this will hydrate your whole system from within.


4. Dont Frown or get angry..atleast dont show it on your face..Frowning and raising eyebrows will lead to wrinkles faster than anything else.


5. Regular exercise increases the required blood circulations that will keep your system free of toxins.This will lead to to younger body.


6. Dont Smoke- smoking dries your system and fastens the wrinkling of skin.


7. Visit Gods Beauty Parlour- which means be a nice person, speak good, do good, dont hurt anybody and soon people will notice a glow on your face as if you have become 20 years younger.


8. Balanced diet which includes all the required proteins and vitamins.essentially green leafy vegetables, fresh fruits, dry fruits,eggs and nuts.


I am also suggesting the following face masks that will rejuvenate your skin and will prevent wrinkles for long.


a) Coffee and Plum exfoliator

Coffee exfoliates and revitalizes your skin and has anti aging properties

Plum is another effective antioxidant

So this combination of coffee and plum works great in getting rid of the oldest dead skin cells and makes a wonderful anti aging exfoliator.

Preparation

Take one tablespoon fine ground coffee and mix it with 3 mashed plums and one teaspoon honey. Apply it on your face and gently scrub off after ten minutes.

b)Green tea and Chamomile toner

 Green Tea and Chamomile is a very effective anti aging toner. This toner not only takes care of signs of aging but also soothes puffy eyes and lightens your complexion.

Preparation

Boil one cup water and steep one green tea bag and one Chamomile tea bag. Let it cool for sometime. Apply it on your face with the help of a cotton ball. Do not rinse

If you follow these recipes religiously it can easily take 10-15 years off your face! So have fun girls!

                              sent to us by

     Dr Ridhima Acharya(Consultant in Naturopathy)

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Slow Down Ageing Naturally

They say 'Age Gracefully' and i am sure this is not said by a woman. we all try to mask ageing specially as we step into thirties and forties. The most visible signs of aging usually occur on the face. Wrinkles on the head and eyes, with loosening of the skin are the most serious signs..Can We stop ageing or atleast reduce the speed of ageing?

Yes we can..We definately Can..

Tips For Remaining young almost forever..

Be happy-The physical damage caused to your body by stress has only recently become appreciated by the scientific community. Fill your life with things you love and get rid of almost everything else. Practice stress relieving activities like meditation and exercise, and learn to appreciate joy when you find it. Happiness does a body good.

Keep Stress and Anger away- The more you get angry, the more faster will wrinkles appear on your face..

Wake up with a smile..everday..all your life..forever.

Sleep like a log everynight for atleast 8 hours. The more sound and peaceful your sleep is, the more beautiful your skin would look.

Regular Exercise- This will keep your fat away and tone your skin and muscles..remember fat leads to loosening of skin..Jogging, cycling regularly are best forms of exercise.

Eat vegetables- There is good evidence that oxidative damage caused by toxins and metabolism contributes to the aging process at a cellular level. Foods (but not supplements) high in antioxidants seem to protect us from oxidative stress.

Green leafy vegetables, fresh fruits, nuts and eggs will provide the necessary vitamins and proteins for your body..your skin and hair is made up of protein, so pamper yourself with protein shakes regularly.

Avoid sugar-Sugar is a direct cause of aging and significantly reduces lifespan in organisms from yeast to primates. Not by a small amount either.

Moisturize-The appearance of your skin is largely dependent upon moisture. Help it out by using moisturizers to keep your skin soft and hydrated. Work with a professional to determine what type is best for you.

Tea- Afternoon tea time is one of the greatest discoveries I’ve ever made. Not only is tea full of antioxidants and other cancer-fighting compounds, a midday break can be just what the doctor ordered to sip away stress.

Protect your skin and hair from the harsh sunrays by using a light colored scarf and by applying a soothing sunscreen..

Don’t smoke- Smoking is one of the easiest ways to look older than you really are and shorten your life at the same time. Avoid both primary and secondary smoke like the plague.

Maintain your weight within the normal limits..gaining weight or even losing weight will lead to stretch marks..so take care of how much you eat and what you eat..

Drink lots of water..i emphasise that water is the most essential ingredient that would keep you hydrated and reduce ageing big time..so always keep yourself hydrated.

Keep away from television and spend that time with your loved one..Love and Care will keep you young forever..And I double emphasise on this point..Love is the strongest element for looking young.

The above ways will do miracles on your body.so go for it girls and enjoy being young for very very long.

                              Sent to us by

            Dr Radhika Saxena (Specialist in Naturopathy)

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Natural Cure For Stretch Marks

Stretch marks are fine white to silvery lines on the skin that may develop on the abdomen, thighs, gluteal region and knees. They may also appear because of sudden gain in weight or after weight loss. Rapid growth during puberty may also lead to the development of stretch marks. Stretch marks are very common in pregnancy. These marks may make it difficult for you to be proud of the body that you have.


While there are a number of topical creams and ointments for stretch marks, these do not work sometimes and may even cause skin irritation. Thankfully, there are a number of all-natural remedies for stretch marks, and here are some of them.


 So girls follow the following regime and fade your stretch marks..


 1. Exercise A good workout can be the best remedy for stretch marks. Toning of the muscles allows the skin to firm up, which can cause the stretch marks to fade.


 2. Healthy Foods Add more proteins, and vitamin C- and E-rich foods to your diet. These foods promote the growth of new tissues and the healing of damaged tissues in the skin. Foods rich in zinc, such as nuts and seeds, help prevent the development of stretch marks. Vitamin K-rich foods, like dairy products, liver, green leafy vegetables and tomatoes, promote rapid healing of stretch marks.


 3. Aloe Vera Massage the fleshy pulp of aloe vera on the stretch marks to tone and firm up the skin. The enzymes present in aloe vera promote the removal of damaged tissues while keeping healthy skin hydrated.


 4. Lavender Oil- Lavender oil is the most recommended home remedy in the treatment of stretch marks. When applied three times a day to the affected area, lavender oil induces the growth of new skin tissues to make the stretch marks gradually fade away.


 5. Apricot Scrub A good apricot scrub acts by exfoliating dead and damaged skin tissues found in stretch marks. It also helps tone and firm up the skin, leading to the disappearance of the stretch lines.


 6. Aromatic Oils- Aromatic oils, such as chamomile, avocado, sweet almond and jojoba, promote the healing of stretch marks and toning of the skin. These oils are best used in combination with lavender, and can even help to prevent the reoccurrence of stretch marks.


 7. Cocoa Butter- Cocoa butter is best used to prevent stretch marks during pregnancy. Early application firms and tones up the skin, while keeping it adequately hydrated. Enzymes in cocoa butter also help reduce damage to skin tissue.
            Stretch marks can always disappear if you follow the above..So Take care and be proud of being a woman.

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                        Dr Diana Walling (Cosmetologist)

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Natural Ways To Prevent Hairfall

 Hairloss is a common term these days, it happens to the 50-60% of the men andwomen.It can make a person feel lonely and depressed.When ever you aresuffering from hair loss or hair thinning, its time for you to take your hairmore seriously.

Lifestylechanges has led to immense stress and insecurity. This lifestyle has also ledto changes in our food and diet.So if we prevent these conditions our health,hair and skin would once again rejuvenate.

Thefollowing methods if incorporated in our daily lives, I assure you a hugeimprovement in your hairfall condition.

1. Maintain good hygiene of your hair.That means you shouldkeep your hair protected from sunlight and dust using a light colouredscarf.Wash your hair with a mild herbal shampoo to prevent damage to hair.

2. Add Protein in your diet.Eggs and poultry products are avery rich source of proteins. You can also opt for protein shakes(recommended in case of excess hairfall)

3. Vitamin C stops hairloss.So add vitamin C in yourdiet.Citrus fruits, such as oranges and lemons, are especially high in vitaminC.

4. Vitamin B plays a great role in increasing hairgrowth.Take Vitamin B supplements in your Diet.Green leafy vegetables and meat products are high in Vitamin B

5. Iron defficiency also leads to hairfall. Diet rich in iron is green leafy vegetables,apple,strawberries and meat products.

6. Drink Water to Grow Hair
The hair shaft is comprised of one quarter water. Drink at least 8 glasses ofwater a day to stay hydrated and grow healthy hair.

7.Vitamin E Grows Hair
Vitamin E is another nutrient needed to grow hair. It stimulates thecirculation in the scalp and can be taken internally or applied to the scalp.Vitamin E is present in Cereals,nuts and green leafy vegetables.

8.Vitamin A Feeds Healthy Hair
Vitamin A helps create vibrant shiny hair because it works with the fatsynthesis in the hair follicles and spurs hair growth. Foods that containvitamin A include eggs, kale, squash, and carrots.

9.Smoking Causes Hair Loss
Smoking cigarettes reduces the blood flow to the scalp and this causes areduction in hair growth. Stop smoking to help hair grow.

10. Reduce Alcoholic Beverages to Reduce Hair Loss
Drinking alcohol reduces hair growth. Reduce or eliminate alcohol from the dietand you will see an increase in hair growth.

11. Massage your hair gently atleast once a week with aherbal oil to increase blood circulation of scalp and thus improving hairgrowth.

12. Keep away from stress. That is an absolute necessity.Iwont deal on that topic in this article, but do find ways to remain happy andpeaceful.Your quality of hair reflects the overall health of your body.

Enjoy Your Life And Have A Great Health!

sent to us by

Dr Roma Bose (Dermatologist)

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Natural ways For Glowing Skin In Summer

Summers burn and tan your skin.Summers damage your skin by dehydrating it.

 I therefore always advice women to pamper their skin naturally bcoz thats the best way to maintain youth.

Follow the steps below and achieve a glowing and healthy complexion this Summer.

 Cleanse your skin often, at least three times a week. Use a scrub by Mixing equal portions of gram flour, sandalwood powder and multani mitti. Mix these with rose water and scrub your face. It helps keeping your skin clean and soft . 

For moisturizing your skin in Summers, there is nothing better than season fruit facial masks.. cut the pulp of the fruit or squeeze it into the blender and then apply it on your face as quickly as possible before the vitamins in the fruit lose their potency.

Another key skin ingredient for skin care this summer is Coconut water, if rubbed on the skin it lightens and brightens the skin. It is also instrument in getting rid of heat rash. It can be applied as a lotion and left on the skin and then washed with cold rose water.

 

  1.Mango pulp is great to cure acne problems in this season. 

 2.Grapes and litchee’s are great to use on wrinkles around the eyes and mouth. It helps in moisturizing, detoxifies and nourishes skin. 

3.Papaya pulp is useful on blackheads and blotchy skin.

4.Cucumber on the other hand is extremely cooling.. One can also mix the juice of one small cucumber with one teaspoon of rose water to make a great moisturizer application for the skin.

5.Watermelon juice as an application on the face is a great skin toner and makes the skin fresh and healthy.

 This summer, take special care of you eyes and under eyes. Sleep well and before sleeping put a drop of rose water in each eye. It soothes the eye as well as brightens it.

With regard to your face this is the best summer skin routine to follow. But, one needs to take care of the rest of the body as well. Here are a few rules you can follow while bathing to take care of your body skin…

 

 1.Add a cup of buttermilk to your bath if you have large open pores it helps tightening them.

 2.To nourish and soothe your skin, use this bath formula. 

  Mix 2 teaspoons salt with 1 and half teaspoon almond oil and half a teaspoon vinegar. Apply this on your body before your bath.

 3.If your skin is prone to getting tanned or is already tanned apply a mix of equal quantity of almond oil and vinegar an hour before bathing. You will be surprised with the results.

 4.In case of a sunburn ,use a yogurt mask to cure it. Leave it on for ten minutes on the affected area. Rubbing ice cubes also is an immediate cure.

 5.In case of a heat rash one can apply a mix of corn starch with cold water. It will help a great deal.

            Take Care Girls And Enjoy The Summers!

                                       sent to us by

                    Dr Gayatri Bose (Consultant Ayurveda)

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