Signs That Your Spouse Is Cheating

You have a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach, something is not right but you cant figure out what that feeling is about.Your spouse has become distant, he/she is working late at regular basis.

You suspect there maybe someone else but everytime you bring it up,  your spouse denies it all.

Your spouse may be betraying you or your spouse could be innocent. How would you know? The feeling is just killing you.

     Lets examine the following signs and symptoms..They will help you towards the truth.

1)" We Are Just Friends"

      This Is A very common phrase used by a cheating spouse or a spouse who is no more interested in you.

2) A sudden need of privacy

    if things which were shared openly by both of you, suddenly become a private affair,then .it should ring a bell..if he/she suddenly changes the account passwords without telling you..if your spouse does not just let the mobile out of his/her sight.then something definately is cooking.

3)"I need more Space"

     Men and women involved in someone else will ask for more space or time away from the family.

4) Change in work habits

     Working late or working at odd hours, not just once in a while but if it continues for long, then you need to keep on your toes.

5) Spending a lot of time chatting on the social networking sites

    if your spouse in online more than usal, if your spousing is frequently visiting chat rooms or watching porn more than usual, then you need to be alarmed.

6)Secretive phone calls

      if your spouse does not openly speak in front of you, or erases the messages from inbox or erases call data or gets very defensive when asked for an explanation then there could be something wrong.

7)Behaviour that does not just add up

   meetings which your spouse just cant explain..money which cant be accounted for..receipts that dont make sense.Being caught in little lies about the details of the day.

8)Your Intuition

                 Your intuition is the best indicator that something is cooking..If you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, do some investigation and then talk to him/her about what you have found.

Do it in a calm and courteous way.Ask for honesty.Be prepaired for lies.

             Infidelity is depressing and breaks down honest relationships of years. Stay True to your beloved. Take Care.

                                             sent to us by
           Dr Anna Joseph (Specialist Family Counselling)